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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Cohen Gilsinger who was born in Ohio on October 24, 2005 and passed away on February 06, 2006 . We will remember him forever.

Cohen Bastani Gilsinger, 3 months, died unexpectedly Monday, February 6, 2006 at Memorial Hospital of Union County. He was born October 24, 2005 at Riverside Methodist Hospital in Columbus. Cohen was a beautiful and strong little boy who touched many people's hearts in such a short period of time. He was full of laughter and his smile would make a grown man's heart melt. He will always be in our hearts, mind, and prayers as he is now one of God's Angels to look over all of us. We will love you "baby Cohen," forever. He is survived by his parents, Chad and Negar Boushehry Gilsinger; a brother, Myles Gilsinger; maternal grandparents, Zahra Hashemian and Bob Farabee of Greenwood, Ind. and Cyrus Boushehry of Tehran, Iran; paternal grandparents, Cecil and Deborah Huddleson of Logansport, Ind. and Tom and Cathy Gilsinger of Logansport, Ind.; and loving friends of Cohen's, Gosia, Chris and Natalia Cymbal. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Sudden Infant Death Institute, 509 Augusta Drive, Marietta, Ga. 30067. www.sids.org

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Little Angels

When God calls little children to dwell with him above,
We mortals sometimes question the wisdom of His love.
For no heartache compares with the death of one small child,
Who does so much to make our world seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to his fold,
So He picks a rosebud, before it can grow old.

God knows how much we need them,
and so He takes but a few
To make the land of heaven
more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult
still somehow we must try,
The saddest word mankind knows
will always be "Goodbye."
So when a little child departs,
we who are left behind
Must realize God loves children,
angels are
hard to find.


God will be waiting, to help you bear,
The pain and the sorrow of your suffering care.
For no pain or suffering is ever too much,
To yield itself, to God's merciful touch.

He will care for nd love your little angel,
The little child, that you loved so very much.
Your child is in God's care now,
You child is in God's touch.


A Letter From Above

Dear Mr Postman,
can you send a letter from me
I need it sent from up above to my earthly family
Please send it quick, my mummy's sad, I hate to see her cry
Every night she prays to God and sadly asks him why.

Please let it say, I could not stay, with an angel I had to go
I'm fine, I'm happy here with the other babies I know
I hope it reads to Daddy, I know you love me too
I miss you lots and all the things that we had planned to do.

Grandma, how I'll miss your hugs and kisses planned for me
I know how much you'll miss the growing child that I should be
Close it with I love you so, I'm with you in your heart
I never really left you see, I was an angel from the start.



MISS YOU

A million times we'll miss you,
a million times we'll cry.
If loving could have saved you,
you never would have died.
In life we love you dearly,
In death we love you too.
In our hearts there is an empty place,
no one could fill but you.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you never went alone.
for part of us went with you,

when God took you home.
His garden must be pretty,
he only wants the best.
He put his loving arms around you
and said: "My child, come home to rest".



Roses In Heaven 

Beautiful red, pink, yellow and white roses,
They all say "I Love You"
The thorns on the bush remind us
That mistakes need forgiveness too.
Red roses tell of God's beauty,
That often thrills my soul.
The yellow, whispers of His Love,
Chasing away sadness, and making us whole.
The pink is for the blush in my cheeks,
When laughter chases the blues away.
The white tells of His forgiveness,
We'll share together each day.

If Roses grow in heaven,
Lord, please pick a bunch for me.
Place them in my loved one's arms
and tell them, they're from me.
Tell them that I love and miss
them, and when they turn to smile,
place a kiss upon their cheek
and hold them for a while.
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day.
But there's an ache within my heart,
that will never go away.


What Makes a Mother

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a Mother
And I know I heard him say.
A Mother has a baby
This we know is true.'

But God, can you be a Mother
When your baby's not with you?
Yes, you can, He replied
With confidence in His voice
I give many women babies
When they leave is not their choice.
Some I send for a lifetime
And others for a day.
And some I send to feel your womb
But there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this, God
I want my baby here
He took a breath and cleared His throat
And then I saw a tear.
I wish I could show you
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say:
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
Of love and life and fear.

My Mommy loved me oh so much
I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a Mom
Who had so much love for me
I learned my lesson very quickly
My Mommy set me free.
I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day.
When she goes to sleep
On her pillow's where I lay.
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And whisper in her ear.
"Mommy don't be sad today
I'm your baby and I'm here."

So you see my dear sweet one
Your children are ok
Your babies are here in My home
And this is where they'll stay.
They'll wait for you with Me
Until your lesson is through.
And on the day that you come home
They'll be at the gates for you.

So now you see what makes a Mother
It's the feeling in your heart.
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.
Though some on earth may not realize
You are a Mother until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day
And you know you're the best one.


PRECIOUS CHILD
Words and Music by Karen Taylor-Good
(Song available on right)

In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child

In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still

In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child

In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still

In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then

In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

Click here to see Cohen Gilsinger's
Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
Cohen - an angel   / Amelia Fowler (HS Friend of Father )
Dear Chad and Negar,

I only recently heard of your loss. Although I haven't seen you, Chad, in almost ten years - I wanted to send my love and support to the both of you in this difficult time of the year.

You are in my prayer...  Continue >>
God's precious child   / Rob Carney (Uncle)
To Negar and Chad,
       You two are very special to me and some of the strongest people I have ever met. I know this time is very sad in one way but very happy in other ways. God gave you two a child so precious t...  Continue >>
remembering  / Amber Kelly (Aunt)
Chad and Negar- You are in my thoughts today and always. You guys are so very strong. I don't know how you do it. Just remember Cohen is always with us in our hearts, and always looking down upon us. Keep smiling like you always have, and remember we...  Continue >>
To My Special Children   / Debbie Huddleson (Grandmother)
The strength and courage the both of you show is so remarkable.  Cohen would be so proud. I hope the two of you feel the nearness of all the loving thoughts that are with you today from all of those who care and love you so.   Love to ...  Continue >>
A note to my friends   / Mark Pafumi
Negar and Chad,

Thinking of you on the one year anniversary of Cohen's passing.  I know you've had a lot of private grieving, but your public face has never been anything but incredibly strong and positive.  It's very healthy and...  Continue >>
Dad's Day  / The Martins     Read >>
Dad's Day  / The Martins     Read >>
Who Knew...  / Andrea     Read >>
My Condolences: May our beautiful boys fly together!  / Lisa Mummy To Angel Parker Colling (passerby)    Read >>
Mom's Day  / Ken, Andrea, &. McKenna (friend)    Read >>
Mother's Day  / Becky Larson     Read >>
Loved More In His Time Than Some Are In A Lifetime....  / Kelly Culver (Mom of An Angel )    Read >>
Happy Easter  / Becky Larson     Read >>
One day Cohen your mommys tears will be wiped away!  / Keena Killians Mommy     Read >>
Thinking of you Cohen & your Mommy  / Keena Killians Mommy     Read >>
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